Do all things gently.

God is gentle and He loves gentleness.

Psalm 18:35 KJV

[35] Thou hast also given me the shield of thy salvation: and thy right hand hath holden me up, and thy gentleness hath made me great.

Could it be that you make other people great by your gentleness?

Matthew 12:19-20 KJV

[19] He shall not strive, nor cry; neither shall any man hear his voice in the streets.

[20] A bruised reed shall he not break, and smoking flax shall he not quench, till he send forth judgment unto victory.

Many times, people do what is commanded by God, but they do not do it gently. Something good becomes evil.